Our second day at the GASP spanking party in Atlanta got off to a lazy start as we slept in a bit. 9 hours of driving the previous day had added up and the extra rest felt good.
The folks at GASP provided a complimentary breakfast even to us late risers. Muffins, yogurt, cheese sticks. The hotel offered breakfast for an extra cost.
While we had our car, quite a few partygoers flew in and taxi/ubered to the party Total nonissue as everything needed was within easy reach. The people at GASP did a great job, including picking an awesome site.
Spank Talk
After breakfast, we headed downstairs to the conference room area. The entire area was reserved for our group and you needed your party ID to enter. Besides the 8 to 10 steps between the elevators and the conference rooms area – one could partake in everything the weekend had to offer without ever leaving the party and company of fellow spankos.
There were several spanking-themed discussions on the schedule. While Todd has been to dozens of parties through the years, this was Autumn and Rey’s first spanking party. We picked “Spanking 101” – the do’s and dont’s of spanking parties as our first discussion.
The talk was led by five of the leaders of GASP including Listener, who had given Autumn her first-ever party spanking the night before, and Miss Chris, who had also spanked Autumn (about 3 years ago). So 40% of the panel had spanked Autumn!
The talk did indeed cover the basics of spanking party etiquette, which boils down to a lot of common sense. There was a lot of humor included as well as some insight into what different people get out of spanking. All very interesting.
Plus, there was a demonstration on how to use a spanking bench, which was fun to watch!
We also attended a talk/demonstration on hand spanking techniques hosted by Scooterjpm and Bruised_Bunny (their FetLife names). Scooterjpm has been giving this demonstration at parties and events for 15+ years and it shows. Well polished, informative and fun.
Rey, who is very much looking to explore and expand her top side especially enjoyed their presentation.
Spanking Bingo!
The next event was what GASP called “Spanking Carousel.” Other parties might have called it a “Meet and Beat.” Spanking Bingo definitely would have worked too.
The premise was a simple one. Tops/spankers who wished to participate each picked and sat in chairs well spaced out in a large, private conference room. Some only had their hand, others brought a favorite implement or two, and a few brought an assortment of implements.
They could also wear wristbands indicating their gender preference in a potential play partner (including picking any and all).
Bottoms/spankees – again, who wished to participate – gathered outside the room where they were each given a bingo card.
The card listed simple questions. Some spanko-related such as ‘enjoys playing with canes’ and others that were vanilla-based such as ‘has pets.’
The idea was for spankees to approach spankers and ask ‘would you like to spank me?’ After they say yes, there’s a brief negotiation… OTK, standing, bent over the chair – hand or implement – over clothes, panties – soft, moderate or hard… and a spanking is given. After which, the spanker signs a box that they can answer yes to.
First one to get a Bingo! earns a special prize, and then anyone who later gets Bingo! also gets a little something.
The game was a ton of fun. The room was filled with a cacophony of spanking sounds. Autumn ended up getting 9 spankings and Rey got 7 – including her first-ever party spanking (from someone other than Todd) by Nemo from The London Tanners.
The spankings were mostly quick and mild, maybe a minute or so. A couple were a little harder though and/or included an implement.
Neither girl earned a bingo, mainly because they did not try(?!). They were like “sign anywhere” whereas others were more like “sign HERE.”
The point of the game though was to have fun, meet people, and get spanked. Mission accomplished!
Downtime
After all that spanking it was time for a snack, which GASP provided in the private dining area. Lots of yummy choices.
We then returned to our room for a little downtime and rest. We checked in on social media, as there were a couple of ways to connect with fellow partygoers via FetLife and a party app called Discord.
Once dinner rolled around we felt like getting out of the hotel for a bit, but we didn’t need anything complicated, so we had a light dinner at Panda Express.
Dungeon
GASP provided a dungeon space in the evenings that was more of a giant spanking room with spanking benches and tables. There was one suspension station and two St. Andrew’s Crosses.
There were no stringent dungeon BDSM protocols in place, but the typical spanking party protocol also wasn’t in place. If you wanted to be fully nude – that was fine. Wanted to wear a collar and/or other BDSM gear – perfectly fine. Sexual play, minus actual intercourse, was allowed too.
Whatever you called the room, it worked for us! Loved the set up and the freedom offered.
Now both Rey and Autumn had never been to a dungeon. In fact, neither had ever used a spanking bench. Autumn decided she’d go the next night as she had a bit of a headache. That left Todd and Rey to play.
Rey went in with big plans. She wanted to get fully naked, try out all the stuff… play with her vibrator – have a nice orgasm or three. You know, have a good time!
Things started a little slow though, as others focused largely on spanking. That made Rey a little shy. She didn’t want to be the only naked girl in the room having orgasms!
That first evening in the dungeon she enjoyed a 40-minute session on the spanking bench. Lots of slow build-up spanking. Plenty of bottom rubs. Very relaxing.
Todd also used the Good Girl Paddle, leather and hand-shaped, all over her back, like one might use a flogger. Lots of mild thud, but enough to get the skin red by the end of the session.
Rey also took her top off and had nipple clamps put on. So for being brand spanking new – she explored a lot that first night.
Really loved the session too. Definitely worked for her. Ended up having her best fun back in the room… but… with plenty of ideas for our dungeon time the next night.
Autumn was plenty excited to check the dungeon out too after listening to Rey share.
The night ended with lots of play and orgasms back in our room. Made for a happy ending to a great day!